Your last paragraph summarized it all. Don't chase a bad guy and expect good and smooth relationship or the other way round.

I have been into one or two relationships but I notice the flaw of relationship or let me say the sign of bad relationship is always the starting point.

Why will a guy present her self as a play girl or vice versa and along the line you want the other party to be serious with you or in the beginning of a relationship one party always says yes to every request and along the line try to get a say when a relationship has been established the other way round .

It will only take understanding for this to be achieved.

I really learnt from this post. @ehiboss you gonna make a good husband.. Hope the ladies will agree with me.