RE: Growing Pains by dswigle

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· @dswigle · (edited)
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Well, Pryde, you know I don't want to see you go and I'm glad you're going to take the time to re-evaluate. I am guilty of not coming over all the time even though I absolutely adore everything that you write. I have had the pleasure of purchasing your books and I'm delighted every time you get on and do a read.

The fact that you are not getting traction on your post surprises me, and yet appalls me because you are not the only person this happens too and I am truly perplexed. When someone takes the time out of their busy day to put out such a well-written post, I have to wonder why it doesn't have money thrown at it. I mean seriously, I have never read a post of yours that didn't shine. You have got to know that I am not saying this because of you talking about leaving, but,  as your friend and a huge fan of yours.

I can understand your disappointment in giving all that money to the blockchain and not getting, at the very least,  a bit of interaction back. They certainly lack in the interaction department and even myself, who usually will get a few comments with each post would be lacking in that true interaction aspect. It feels like a failure when a person gets a little quip to fill that square of having commented. So I'm not sure a comment is a comment without the true interaction. Don't get mad at me but I upvoted it 100% because you deserve way more than that and I don't care if you don't want my money. You darn well know you want that $0.04, well if you are lucky, it may well be up to $0.05. Now, don't be getting excited until you look. I cannot take any more disappointments today. 

 I'm pretty sure that you have no idea how much people really think of you and I think it's kind of sad on one hand to have you saying you're leaving and for me to come over here and tell me how wonderful you are and please don't leave. But the fact is, I really do feel like you're wonderful. I really do feel like the blockchain would have a hole in it. I really do feel like you have a reason to be here but it's just not quite evident to you right now.


You are a fighter and I know that you have given it a good fight but I'm just asking you to stay a little bit longer and see if the tides don't shift. We can do this! Love to you my friend and I don't expect you to go anywhere without at least telling me. As far as I am concerned, you are going to take a little bit of time off, which I'll give you a day or two and then you'll come back swinging hard. And as for people reposting stuff? Everybody uses pieces or pictures or a thought from time to time and I am so sorry that someone stabbed you for that. I get downvoted for using SBI as a reward. If I mention the name like I just did here I'll probably get another down vote. I know it's not about the money although that's nice. To lose money and then be insulted with a non-existent audience at times will hurt my feelings, so my part in not being here more makes me a little sad. Your kind and thoughtful and a brilliant writer and I don't want you to stop posting here. 

As a matter of fact, I think that you should consider joining PowerHouseCreatives. PHC has members supporting members and their writings. They require a little sweat for their equity, but, it gets your name out and on the map. And there are many writing challenges. I think you would be a good fit. Try it, you'll like it. (That was in my best Italian accent.) Let me know what you think about PowerhouseCreatives. It won't hurt to give it a chance and see how you feel about it. It may also be just the thing you were looking for. They promote their people.

 Okay now. I want you to repeat that back to me just so I make sure that you understand. Love you bunches and I expect to see you posting. As an aside, I want to thank you for always taking the time to come over, reading my post and vote me after leaving a genuine, and always complimentary comment.

Love, Denise
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@prydefoltz ·
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Wow, Denise. This is the best love letter I have ever received. Smiling and giggling with glee. After all the unexpected out-pouring of love from everyone. especially you, how can I not stay. More than the money for me is the time. I am a single mom; I work; write; and homeschool my son. I think I must also fold time somehow and not just laundry ... lol. I am going to re-evaluate my approach on here and hopefully come back new and improved. You speak of a little sweat for PowerHouseCreatives ... what do you mean? I think one thing for sure, I will have to find a better balance. I would just love to have more readership to page. I think then it would all be worth it regardless of the payout. 

You are hands down one of the most beautiful and loving people on the planet. Don't ever change, gorgeous:)

Kisses, kisses, kisses:)
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@dswigle ·
Awwww! You know it! You deserve every bit of this love from everyone. You have decorated the walls of this site with beauty and we just don't want to lose you. 

I understand the time crunch, I am so pressed for time some days, I could cry. I get the homeschool time suck of time. I homeschooled three at once and not one of those plug and play curriculums, it was planned out by your truly, field trips and gym included. But, I l like it. It is the best education money can't buy. 

Powerhousecreatives is a community of artists, writers, poets and the like. There is a place to put your post in when you post so people can peruse it and check out the interesting ones. There is  a newbie room where you are welcomed and people try to meet and greet and check you out. So, it may be a place to try. I think you will like it. Your stuff is true quality, so I believe it is a good fit. Also the Freewrite with Marianne. I cannot believe you haven't done that... but, I can go on and on. Get over there and tell them Denise sent you.  :)  

Another good option is to join in some of the challenges that might be of interest to you. They always draw a crowd and the main thing is that it gets your name out there so that people recognize you and seek you out. You are a great photographer and this would work well with you. If all else fails, you are welcome to #MarketFriday.  :) Well, you are always welcome there. I can hardly wait to see what you got! 

It's a tough market out there right now, but, I have found that when it is tough like this, you foster better friendships and everyone sticks together because there are so few. So, toss out he anchor and be prepared to duel. 

I challenge you. On Guard!

What the heck, you need another !tip .20

Kisses! xo
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@prydefoltz ·
Thanks, Denise. I may try out Powerhouse. The other Denise suggested C-squared. I am just so busy. But I will think on it:)
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@tipu ·
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@old-guy-photos ·
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This woman does have a way with words. You both do omg.
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@prydefoltz ·
:)
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@momzillanc ·
Thank you most sincerely for you wonderful letter to Pryde. She's an amazing talent. If SteemIt cannot keep her, frankly, it will not keep me. I only joined here because she brought me in.
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@prydefoltz ·
Denise ... you are amazing woman and fantastic talent in your own right. I love that I know you. Funny ... this feed is turning into a love fest now. That's better:)
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@momzillanc ·
All the feels!

![Glowing Heart.jpg](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmPF8TYms2RNdDrRDZn2bVgx1xrnswuSfhHRRc8NdSvtGf/Glowing%20Heart.jpg)
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@dswigle · (edited)
@momzillianc

We'll all try to steer her in a direction for more attention and better curation. She has amazing talent and frankly, Steemit is lucky to have her. I had no idea she brought you in. Well, you are a class act yourself. So, I can see why. 

Do you like C-square? I'm not as familiar with the entire works of it, but, they do a great curating job. Thank you for your kind words, Denise. 

Have a great day!

!tip
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@momzillanc · (edited)
Thanks so much for helping lift her experience here. And, as you know, I'm a fan of yours too. Thank you for the tip.

Hey, did you see my paranormal-romance-tragedy novelette post? If not, grab your tissues… https://steemit.com/writing/@momzillanc/the-dance-plays-on-the-complete-novelette
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&#127873; Hi @momzillanc! You have received 0.1 STEEM tip from @dswigle!<br><p><strong>@dswigle wrote lately about: <a href=https://www.steemit.com/@dswigle/unwreathing-a-beautiful-sunday rel="noopener"> Unwreathing A Beautiful Sunday</a></strong> Feel free to follow @dswigle if you like it :)</p><p><a href="https://steemit.com/steemit/@tipu/tipu-tips-guide" rel="noopener">Sending tips with @tipU - how to guide.</a></p>
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