My best advice is not to worry about writing for votes or money. This place is just a place to share information and to allow cooperation on projects. The money aspect is useful, because it gives a way for people to show appreciation or to cooperate on a common task, but for most posts, it's the information sharing that is most important.

Just as a side note, my voting may seem sometimes strange because both my wife and I vote, and like everyone we have some different interests (although we share many common hobbies too).

I agree it's important to keep balance in your life, don't spend all your time in one place. But you can come here sometimes to see what people are thinking and to share your thoughts.