I'm just trying to help you understand why people are upset. You don't need to convince me of anything and you need not justify your actions. I understand you are trying to defend yourself and are emotionally attached to this issue. I have no emotional attachment and am simply being objective here.

If you are anywhere near computer literate, you KNOW that the area ABOVE THE FOLD is the prime viewing area. Putting anything at the bottom of the page is knowing that it could well be missed. I'm not going to say any more on the topic of location because I couldn't care less what you do with my offer of information. Either you are willing to listen or you are not. Simple as that. You can appreciate my concern for you or reject it and consider it as an attack (but that would be only in your own mind). It is only ridiculous to you because you are not listening and instead are too busy trying to defend yourself. STOP; take a deep breath; go do something enjoyable. Calm down and when you are settled, come back and re-read what people are trying to convey to you with a new mindset. Read with the mindset that you are studying a problem that has nothing to do with you. Read to understand what others are feeling. Then think about what you read and contemplate how to apply what you learned to your actions. You need to detach your emotions for a short while in order to not cloud your thinking. Its just natural to be emotionally attached, so you need to be aware of what is happening and fight that.