In my humble not important opinion, a good writer is marked by the ability to be introspective, open-minded, obviously technically sound, but more importantly in touch with their humanity, since most writing is about humans in some way. You tick all those boxes, and even when you stumble a little like in that last situation with @mibenkito, you do a double-down of looking inward and finding the lesson in the experience. Cutting through our own ego like that is no easy task, but you haven't struck me as someone opposed to difficult, soul-maturing tasks.  

How boring life and even existence if we couldn't make any mistakes from which we can grow. The trick is always in how its handled, and you handle things like an adult, an artist, and a human first and foremost. Your fans got your back, at least this one does!