新型不孝 by aafeng

hive-180932 · @aafeng · Jan 27 '21 (edited)

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新型不孝

在抖音上看到了一个热门话题：新型不孝。感触最深的就是有人总结的一句话：“父母一无所知，孩子却已经泪流满面。”

这其实说的是父母和子女之间的代沟导致的一种沟通上的问题。父母对孩子在外打拼的辛苦一无所知，觉得孩子们只要基本的生活费就足够了，余下的钱可以帮他们先攒下来。而孩子们为了避免父母担心，从来都是报喜不报忧。

![image](https://user-images.githubusercontent.com/63479035/105424883-1e3e6500-5c40-11eb-973b-60909ea98e7e.png)
Source: Pixabay

在现在已经工作的年轻人中，他们中很多人的父母都崇尚勤俭节约，只要把基本的吃穿用的钱留下后，剩下的钱都是要存下来的。他们也就想当然的觉得自己的孩子也应该这样。就算在大城市工作，在扣除基本生活费后，也要把剩下的钱攒下来。

岂不知，现在这个时代，早就不是除了吃穿之外没有其他消费的时代了。年轻人除了基本生活需求之外，还需要购买衣服，化妆品，和朋友吃吃饭等社交活动。这样扣来扣去很快就成了月光族。但似乎又没法和父母解释清楚。

久而久之，矛盾就产生了。有些父母觉得自己把孩子培养大了，期待有所回馈。但没想到孩子们成了月光族，根本没有能力孝敬父母，或者只能非常有限的孝敬父母。但孩子们也是一肚子苦水，在外面打拼要看老板脸色，回到住所后还要看房东脸色，而父母却不理解自己，真的好难啊。

由于代沟，这确实是一个难题。毕竟两代人的思维方式是有很大差距的。但通过有效的沟通，还是能够增进彼此间理解，毕竟是一家人，很多事情是可以说开得到解决的。

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