La Desautorización Entre Los Padres by brusneilish

spanish · @brusneilish · Jan 4 '18

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La Desautorización Entre Los Padres

Si bien es cierto que no existe un manual para padres, existen comportamientos que evidentemente son incorrectos al criar a los hijos y aunque parezcan obvios, ocurren con frecuencia en la sociedad. Uno de ellos es:

**La desautorización de los padres**

![Desautorización de los padres.jpg](https://steemitimages.com/DQmaJ1sYpnH3zprsc4oqcnzKbD5NkvwCEcXgdjsszv1T2kw/Desautorizaci%C3%B3n%20de%20los%20padres.jpg)

Esto ocurre muy seguido, de hecho lo he visto en varias oportunidades en la calle, en diversos ambientes; incluso en la familia. Aún no soy madre pero creo que esto es un principio que debemos tener mi esposo y yo cuando lleguen los hijos.

Ahora nos preguntamos, ¿cómo nos desautorizamos delante de nuestros hijos? Esto ocurre cuando uno de los padres da una instrucción al hijo y la otra parte lo contradice (dando otra instrucción), sobretodo si esto ocurre delante del niño.

Otro ejemplo (entre muchos) es cuando una de los padres le llama la atención al niño y la otra lo defiende, sobretodo justificando al niño por ser pequeño. En este caso se está generando doble error, porque se estaría cometiendo la desautorización mencionada y preferencia entre hijos.

Entonces, ¿qué se puede hacer? Si a ti “papá”, o a ti “mamá”, te parece injusto el llamado de la otra parte hacia tu hijo, lo ideal es conversarlo a solas con tu pareja, de manera que el niño no se de cuenta de las diferencias que tienen como padres. De esta forma se pondrían de acuerdo y estarían en sintonía.

Espero haberles ayudado con este pequeño consejo, y tocaremos más temas relacionados en siguientes publicaciones.

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@misc.jocs · Jan 31 '18

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@upv0t3 · Mar 21 '18

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@marena5 · Apr 26 '18

Hola, totalmente cierto. Mis hijas son mayores ,pero con mi mascota actuó igual, cuando mi pareja le regaña por algo,ella se acerca a mi y procuro no hacerle caso.

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