假如我在坠江的公交车上 by coldhair

cn · @coldhair · Nov 9 '18

$1.03

假如我在坠江的公交车上

这两天，朋友圈被重庆公交车坠江事件持续刷屏，事件的原因被披露出来，由于一大妈坐过了站，就找司机争吵，最后升级为互殴，结果导致公交车失控，一下坠入江中，整车人因此丧命。

很多人为这件事叹息不已，不就是公交车做过了一站，下车走回去或者再反方向乘坐一站，事情就解决了，争来吵去把一车人的性命葬送了。

屁大点事儿，却导致了如此严重的后果，有多少个家庭因此变得支离破碎，的确让人扼腕。

大家在扼腕叹息的同时，也引发了激烈的讨论论。有人谴责闹事的大妈，有人谴责与乘客互殴的司机，还有人谴责对此麻木漠视的其他乘客。

然而，无论如何谴责也无法改变一车人的命运，我们要做的不是谴责，不是愤怒，不是发泄，而是要认真的思考，如何避免此类事件的再次发生。

看了公交坠江事件的视频和讨论之后，我也陷入了深深的沉思：假如当时我就在那辆公交车上，会是一种什么样的情形？

我不会开公交车，小汽车也驾驶不好，所以，我不太可能是公交司机，没有能力去承担一车人生命安全的责任。

如果我是司机，或许用不着吵架斗殴，自己就能把车开沟里。

我可能是一名乘客，也有可能是一名坐过站的乘客，但是我不太可能因为错过一站而去找司机争吵。曾经我坐公交车也有坐过站，坐错车的情况，但每次都是默默的下车，从不与人争吵。

如果我是那个坐过站的乘客，很可能就悄默声的下车了，一车人也就安然无恙，顺利回家了。

我更可能是车上其他的乘客，遇到大妈跟司机争吵的这种情况，我会站出来制止吗？我想，我不会的。

平常，在街上、车上遇到泼妇吵架，我从来都不管，甚至都懒得观看，太无聊，太没意思，太没价值。

另外，自己不希望惹事儿，我若站起来制止，大妈跟我争吵殴打起来，岂不是惹一身麻烦。万一大妈再突发个心脏病啥的，就更不得了了。

如果我是车上的其他乘客，很可能也会选择麻木、冷漠、无视，我也会随着整车的乘客一起葬身江底了。

从大概率上讲，绝大部分人不太可能是公交司机或是撒泼的大妈，而最可能像我一样是其他乘客。

大多数人像我一样，遇到这样的情况也不会上前制止。没有人认为是自己的责任，就像有人说的，“雪崩之时没有一片雪花觉得自己该负责”。

【原文 No Snowflake in an avalanche ever feels responsible. 作者 Stanislaw Jerzy Lec（斯坦尼斯耶，波兰诗人） 出处 More Unkempt Thoughts（更凌乱的思绪），初版1964】

如果大多数人都不去改变，那么，再遇到类似的情况，结局仍然是一样的，我们和整车人一起赴死。

要避免这样的悲剧，只能从我做起，开始改变，更加关注公众利益和公众安全，摒弃自私自利的小算盘，该站出来的时候就勇敢的站出来！

——2018年11月4日

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@julian2013 · Nov 10 '18

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@tumutanzi · Nov 10 '18

$0.49

哥你好久没有现身了，欢迎归来。

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@coldhair · Nov 11 '18

回来冒个泡，谢谢坛子

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@tumutanzi · Nov 11 '18

$0.28

甚是想念。

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@cheva · Nov 10 '18

还是需要大多数人觉醒才行。现在国内这种社会环境，单纯从我做起，肯定不会有好下场，如果你在那辆公交车上，挺身而出，制止大妈，大妈来个假摔碰瓷，你虽然救了一车人，捡了条命。但惹了一身麻烦。而且事后大家多半各走各的，不会有人跟你出头，鲁迅说国人吃人血馒头，还是很深刻的。毕竟司机出岔子把车开到江里是小概率事件。你怎么事先知道这是性命攸关的时候呢？如果事事出头，你自己的日子就没法过了。

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@coldhair · Nov 11 '18

是啊，单个个体的觉醒是不能改变社会的，但我相信，星星之火，可以燎原，社会一定会越来越文明。

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@yellowbird · Nov 10 '18

我觉得我应该也是那个冷漠的乘客，我也可能会提前下车，给自己个清净，眼不见心不烦。

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@coldhair · Nov 11 '18

跟我差不多，只是，很多时候，我们没有下车的机会。

👍 jadabug

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@steemitboard · Jul 25 '19

<center>[![](https://steemitimages.com/175x175/http://steemitboard.com/@coldhair/level.png?201907250251)](https://steemitboard.com/@coldhair)
<center>@coldhair, sorry to see you have less Steem Power.
Your level lowered and you are now a **Minnow**!</center>

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@steemitboard · Oct 31 '19

<center>[![](https://steemitimages.com/175x175/http://steemitboard.com/@coldhair/level.png?201910310407)](https://steemitboard.com/@coldhair)
<center>@coldhair, sorry to see you have less Steem Power.
Your level lowered and you are now a **Red Fish**!</center>

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