感謝別人,是我們從小被教導的態度。但是聽多了,就變成教條,變成一種應該,但是沒有感覺,表面上說了,但是並不真心,的一種生活裝飾品。 我們認知到,「應該」要感謝,但可能是從功利角度,可能是從從眾的角度,可能是一種禮貌.... 因此往往容易忘記,**感謝本身,是一種強大無比的力量**,但這種強大,必須從很長時間來看,必須要你相信它,從而內化成一種人生態度。 這樣的說法,看似也是功利,但其實拉長時間看,或是從內化角度來看,在表面上的討論已經不重要,重點就是讓感謝回歸真正的意涵,而這樣的回歸,我認為,對於人生有諸多好處。 ![image.png](https://images.hive.blog/DQmbYmYXvSQGZF4FcLuHouyKVJo7D2bcminRvPLRRGFttr3/image.png) 以我來說,跟一般人相比,我算是相對能力較強的人(客觀而論),也因此,我比較少真心感謝人生路上的貴人或助力,往往容易認為,若是有成功,其實是我自己的條件使然。就算別人幫我,也往往容易認為,誰幫誰還不知道呢,我配合別人,別人也是得利,彼此都不虧... 你獲得一個工作機會,到底是公司幫了你,還是公司因為有你而受惠?其實,我不是要談這個問題。因為這問題往往出於不同角度會有不同答案,且都言之成理。 感謝,不是論理,不是計較,而只是一種態度。 你感謝別人,不是一種零和遊戲,別人看似"賺"了,其實你也賺了。很多人過於驕傲,包括年輕時的我,總認為感謝別人,代表自己能力差,代表跟別人低聲下氣,這都是無謂的損失。 感謝跟愛一樣,是一種正面力量,能夠相互激盪,產生更多正能量。 年輕時,我們容易變成驕傲的孔雀,得意洋洋展示自己羽毛,在表面上強者獲得面子,卻不容易讓人真心佩服。 年紀漸長,漸漸了解到,江湖之大,想成就一點點事情,都需要得道多助,沒有真正的強人,而只有強的團隊,且往往都是沒有聲音的團隊。 年輕時就因為相對能力較差,或是因為自信較低,造成凡是感謝他人幫助的人,反而能夠一步一腳印,慢慢累積,成就更遠大的事業與人生。許多有能力的人,成天抱怨,怨東怪西,慢慢地身邊沒有人想跟他合作,最後落得空有能力,無法成事,這不是能力問題,而是人生態度問題。有能力者,能不慎乎? ![image.png](https://images.hive.blog/DQmdttQUk2NDEA3aXyrfF4LFnERu5S18SgBDfVitgUjRwx6/image.png) 感謝這Steem一路上,曾經幫助過我的人,點讚的人,留話的人,莫名其妙給我錢的人.... 感謝你們成就今日的我,這個虛擬空間的我... 未來路迢迢,還請繼續支持扶持... <del>我都TM寫這麼長了,你TM怎麼還不點讚!^0^</del> **** <sub>*image source - pixabay*</sub>
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author | deanliu |
permlink | 7htttv |
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created | 2020-04-27 21:05:36 |
last_update | 2020-04-27 21:05:36 |
depth | 0 |
children | 0 |
net_rshares | 32,385,769,797,774 |
last_payout | 2020-05-04 21:05:36 |
cashout_time | 1969-12-31 23:59:59 |
total_payout_value | 6.638 SBD |
curator_payout_value | 5.429 SBD |
pending_payout_value | 0.000 SBD |
promoted | 0.000 SBD |
body_length | 1,212 |
author_reputation | 726,291,750,173,620 |
root_title | 感謝是無比強大的力量🙏🏼 |
beneficiaries | [] |
max_accepted_payout | 1,000,000.000 SBD |
percent_steem_dollars | 10,000 |
author_curate_reward | "" |
voter | weight | wgt% | rshares | pct | time |
---|---|---|---|---|---|
jademont | 0 | 39,357,109,141 | 10% | ||
daycrypter | 0 | 129,736,380,808 | 100% | ||
coinbitgold | 0 | 68,745,906,720 | 80% | ||
gerber | 0 | 37,602,795,686 | 3.3% | ||
ezzy | 0 | 1,301,616,401,915 | 50% | ||
slowwalker | 0 | 54,874,774,722 | 11% | ||
blockchainbilly | 0 | 8,288,072,488 | 50% | ||
smolalit | 0 | 12,831,872,863 | 27% | ||
deanliu | 0 | 638,542,834,184 | 100% | ||
exyle | 0 | 601,366,694,410 | 10% | ||
rea | 0 | 110,173,341,931 | 30% | ||
lemooljiang | 0 | 548,885,372,582 | 88% | ||
daynewright | 0 | 16,932,966,061 | 65% | ||
ace108 | 0 | 277,809,548,493 | 25% | ||
magicmonk | 0 | 993,058,705,847 | 100% | ||
laoyao | 0 | 36,446,950,216 | 100% | ||
somebody | 0 | 10,668,758,983 | 100% | ||
midnightoil | 0 | 128,023,046,918 | 100% | ||
xiaohui | 0 | 725,903,958,593 | 100% | ||
oflyhigh | 0 | 1,436,555,349,793 | 100% | ||
yulan | 0 | 13,078,217,331 | 100% | ||
rivalhw | 0 | 464,023,848,826 | 100% | ||
helene | 0 | 591,824,159,229 | 100% | ||
netaterra | 0 | 285,268,819,186 | 20% | ||
marina007 | 0 | 11,891,976,245 | 36% | ||
oldstone | 0 | 1,597,415,410,429 | 11% | ||
siniceku | 0 | 2,726,165,941 | 100% | ||
luneknight | 0 | 334,833,293 | 100% | ||
dapeng | 0 | 34,184,900,331 | 100% | ||
elizacheng | 0 | 38,578,776,984 | 22% | ||
ramires | 0 | 11,426,318,548 | 100% | ||
lordneroo | 0 | 1,266,450,947 | 3.13% | ||
htliao | 0 | 118,118,825,663 | 100% | ||
martin.starosta | 0 | 27,724,391 | 10% | ||
wylo | 0 | 620,781,088 | 100% | ||
jkkim | 0 | 27,014,748 | 10% | ||
lotusofmymom | 0 | 13,510,747,733 | 11% | ||
victorier | 0 | 161,952,212,548 | 100% | ||
eval | 0 | 678,771,773 | 100% | ||
aaronli | 0 | 109,061,617,475 | 100% | ||
techken | 0 | 10,530,883 | 0.23% | ||
runicar | 0 | 16,278,897,668 | 3.13% | ||
that1consultant | 0 | 252,556,455 | 100% | ||
sanzo | 0 | 653,270,059 | 100% | ||
sweetieprincess | 0 | 31,148,821,507 | 50% | ||
zeekcryptominer | 0 | 260,513,676 | 100% | ||
shitsignals | 0 | 3,895,855,945 | 2.5% | ||
kona | 0 | 12,239,963,423 | 50% | ||
oldman28 | 0 | 23,825,997,052 | 48% | ||
liangfengyouren | 0 | 3,026,472,630 | 50% | ||
mangoanddaddy | 0 | 2,376,322,966 | 80% | ||
tonpa | 0 | 191,043,247 | 10% | ||
marcoharley1995 | 0 | 557,052,182 | 100% | ||
fr3eze | 0 | 141,794,753,153 | 100% | ||
igrinov | 0 | 3,412,805,082 | 25% | ||
cn-reader | 0 | 7,869,204,992 | 50% | ||
pardeepkumar | 0 | 2,940,851,426 | 3.13% | ||
liumei | 0 | 1,122,668,189 | 10.5% | ||
kimzwarch | 0 | 15,424,238,535 | 8% | ||
bboyady | 0 | 504,849,663 | 2% | ||
accelerator | 0 | 11,300,292,922 | 1.98% | ||
justinparke | 0 | 3,322,288,835 | 9.08% | ||
davidke20 | 0 | 4,761,510,843 | 4% | ||
roleerob | 0 | 3,417,640,290 | 0.99% | ||
ms8988 | 0 | 552,242,441 | 100% | ||
kettleandseagull | 0 | 42,697,780,840 | 100% | ||
xiaoshancun | 0 | 43,531,212,826 | 100% | ||
minloulou | 0 | 2,603,892,219 | 10.5% | ||
victory622 | 0 | 134,981,912,658 | 100% | ||
toocurious | 0 | 3,627,337,192 | 3.26% | ||
namchau | 0 | 3,084,361,112 | 70% | ||
winniex | 0 | 13,255,382,052 | 30% | ||
blockbrothers | 0 | 16,570,548,811 | 5% | ||
kimxinfo | 0 | 0 | 100% | ||
huatanzhang | 0 | 1,766,008,012 | 100% | ||
emrebeyler | 0 | 22,668,437,463 | 3.3% | ||
windowglass | 0 | 209,773,014,892 | 30% | ||
halleyleow | 0 | 4,052,118,100 | 80% | ||
cnbuddy | 0 | 1,750,743,407 | 0.1% | ||
chann | 0 | 13,014,607,684 | 38% | ||
jacktan | 0 | 595,441,074 | 10.5% | ||
santiagocazorla | 0 | 800,321,391 | 100% | ||
ocupation | 0 | 4,230,409,514 | 3.13% | ||
coindzs | 0 | 1,553,356,656 | 100% | ||
nokodemion | 0 | 24,031,813,566 | 100% | ||
enjoyinglife | 0 | 762,565,365 | 3.13% | ||
mmmmkkkk311 | 0 | 368,017,135,094 | 100% | ||
youandme | 0 | 714,839,278 | 100% | ||
investprosper | 0 | 1,108,205,518 | 1.65% | ||
cadawg | 0 | 5,070,762,947 | 2.3% | ||
photoholic | 0 | 694,543,043,359 | 11% | ||
yjcps | 0 | 3,677,241,898 | 100% | ||
happy-soul | 0 | 45,436,708,399 | 12.5% | ||
iipoh06 | 0 | 538,823,111 | 100% | ||
dmitriyyandreev | 0 | 1,830,722,897 | 100% | ||
mindtrap | 0 | 23,559,358,044 | 3.13% | ||
btccurrency1 | 0 | 110,082,409 | 100% | ||
ethanlee | 0 | 3,806,746,708 | 100% | ||
bestboom | 0 | 1,528,089,822 | 3.3% | ||
onepercentbetter | 0 | 4,352,850,983 | 1.8% | ||
abrockman | 0 | 3,452,252,151 | 0.99% | ||
mariuszkarowski | 0 | 12,308,268,485 | 100% | ||
liewsc | 0 | 602,533,378 | 10.5% | ||
casperleow | 0 | 3,711,285,086 | 90% | ||
therising | 0 | 5,586,069,979,198 | 25% | ||
informator | 0 | 3,731,915,619 | 50% | ||
angelinafx | 0 | 8,283,255,040 | 7.96% | ||
jaydih | 0 | 765,960,716,840 | 18% | ||
tronhill | 0 | 1,830,100,462 | 50% | ||
andrewma | 0 | 7,594,807,561 | 30% | ||
kimseun | 0 | 119,399,316,136 | 18% | ||
wisdomandjustice | 0 | 1,341,126,589,076 | 11% | ||
tanlikming | 0 | 23,538,701,502 | 100% | ||
pladozero | 0 | 27,985,261,297 | 10% | ||
nateaguila | 0 | 128,941,683,781 | 8% | ||
archisteem | 0 | 4,684,327,686 | 7.5% | ||
springfall | 0 | 588,528,828 | 100% | ||
fishlucy | 0 | 13,515,997,324 | 50% | ||
luminaryhmo | 0 | 991,572,230 | 100% | ||
jiahua | 0 | 0 | 100% | ||
merlion | 0 | 620,317,374 | 1.8% | ||
robertyan | 0 | 16,542,282,512 | 100% | ||
tydebbie | 0 | 1,530,163,093 | 10.5% | ||
moneybaby | 0 | 836,877,661 | 2.5% | ||
kanadaramagi123 | 0 | 81,284,239,028 | 18% | ||
suonghuynh | 0 | 393,728,083,727 | 7.96% | ||
ybeyond | 0 | 1,103,265,437 | 21% | ||
team-cn | 0 | 128,277,559,885 | 21% | ||
hardmetal | 0 | 545,815,748 | 100% | ||
abcallen | 0 | 9,560,314,018 | 50% | ||
loveecho | 0 | 150,014,178,435 | 18% | ||
coder-bts | 0 | 8,856,264,512 | 100% | ||
wanggang | 0 | 32,159,906,285 | 4.2% | ||
yuwen | 0 | 544,882,221 | 100% | ||
shuxue | 0 | 545,541,550 | 100% | ||
money-way | 0 | 557,100,933 | 100% | ||
zhuanzhibufu | 0 | 541,293,989 | 100% | ||
angelslake | 0 | 30,938,034,203 | 18% | ||
sudoku | 0 | 1,791,412,697 | 25% | ||
daath | 0 | 2,334,650,497 | 100% | ||
sunai | 0 | 6,939,436,106 | 100% | ||
smartvote | 0 | 525,860,297,945 | 7.64% | ||
zongli | 0 | 539,075,575 | 100% | ||
zhuxi | 0 | 539,763,458 | 100% | ||
jidgabol | 0 | 384,997,339 | 100% | ||
triptolemus | 0 | 6,115,234,384 | 3.3% | ||
melaniewang | 0 | 1,692,328,404 | 10.5% | ||
rayshiuimages | 0 | 3,529,902,184 | 15% | ||
wordit | 0 | 29,943,417,991 | 18% | ||
sj-jeong | 0 | 967,901,326,289 | 18% | ||
wondumyungga | 0 | 66,193,344,764 | 18% | ||
bobby.madagascar | 0 | 2,375,398,371 | 1.65% | ||
aquawink | 0 | 77,401,407,058 | 18% | ||
lkvictor2005 | 0 | 20,800,451,098 | 100% | ||
creativeblue | 0 | 9,252,840,827 | 50% | ||
bichen | 0 | 1,801,262,669 | 100% | ||
sasaadrian | 0 | 30,317,296,861 | 20% | ||
allonepower | 0 | 542,451,467 | 100% | ||
ringit | 0 | 50,891,158,262 | 18% | ||
coreabeforekorea | 0 | 596,345,565,898 | 18% | ||
talkative-bk | 0 | 768,853,100,404 | 18% | ||
moneytron | 0 | 23,593,348,892 | 100% | ||
shyant | 0 | 2,757,555,985 | 100% | ||
elkaos | 0 | 9,878,492,968 | 54% | ||
steemfriends | 0 | 4,200,650,976 | 100% | ||
konmila | 0 | 2,383,911,918 | 100% | ||
dariyaya | 0 | 2,383,651,127 | 100% | ||
adelinak | 0 | 2,383,495,295 | 100% | ||
kamillaevd | 0 | 2,383,738,216 | 100% | ||
krylovayar | 0 | 2,383,740,584 | 100% | ||
rybakova | 0 | 2,384,020,683 | 100% | ||
klavdiya | 0 | 2,383,515,247 | 100% | ||
teterina | 0 | 2,379,593,372 | 100% | ||
aliraz | 0 | 2,383,483,338 | 100% | ||
subbotina | 0 | 2,383,523,481 | 100% | ||
natalip | 0 | 2,383,517,755 | 100% | ||
primeradue | 0 | 1,525,438,095 | 3.3% | ||
permaculturedude | 0 | 610,155,001 | 1.65% | ||
ctime | 0 | 505,925,283,964 | 8% | ||
mbappe | 0 | 1,266,794,087 | 60% | ||
ladyyunajay | 0 | 3,443,758,636 | 90% | ||
teamcn-fund | 0 | 5,041,266,704 | 100% | ||
mia-cc | 0 | 2,710,050,568 | 21% | ||
hungrybear | 0 | 618,900,500 | 1.8% | ||
foodiecouple | 0 | 875,325,119 | 10.5% | ||
cpt-sparrow | 0 | 18,394,003,988 | 100% | ||
kggymlife | 0 | 2,847,493,927 | 20% | ||
kryptogames | 0 | 132,648,370,390 | 25% | ||
anti-fraud | 0 | 342,504,502 | 20% | ||
epicdice | 0 | 296,082,793,768 | 20% | ||
mavollme | 0 | 608,560,725 | 100% | ||
whatdidshewear | 0 | 151,322,343,685 | 18% | ||
sjgod4018 | 0 | 374,653,851,621 | 18% | ||
mustard-seed | 0 | 51,944,677,410 | 18% | ||
ellashen | 0 | 1,793,527,959 | 100% | ||
steemindian | 0 | 984,957,378 | 5% | ||
koei | 0 | 1,070,438,184 | 50% | ||
mosquito76 | 0 | 1,883,242,010 | 30% | ||
sct.dean | 0 | 1,170,169,445 | 100% | ||
map10k | 0 | 21,450,562,679 | 12% | ||
nympheas | 0 | 2,727,372,138 | 16.8% | ||
oldstone.sct | 0 | 7,344,948,651 | 11% | ||
steem.leo | 0 | 23,237,065,204 | 3.26% | ||
leo.voter | 0 | 25,334,893,287 | 3.3% | ||
freddio.sport | 0 | 1,382,993,145 | 15% | ||
mapxv | 0 | 19,602,373,451 | 10% | ||
sct.krwp | 0 | 5,187,355,857,804 | 7.51% | ||
leo.syndication | 0 | 837,669,520 | 3.3% | ||
one.life | 0 | 7,551,790,674 | 3.29% | ||
maxuv | 0 | 10,039,723,520 | 100% | ||
maxuvv | 0 | 4,075,239,921 | 50% | ||
maxuvc | 0 | 3,366,375,537 | 100% | ||
maxuvd | 0 | 34,745,669,819 | 100% | ||
maxuve | 0 | 52,489,670,076 | 10.8% | ||
teresa.yaiyai | 0 | 6,755,160,774 | 100% | ||
omegarojo827 | 0 | 1,258,254,750 | 100% | ||
sct.curator | 0 | 18,718,368,709 | 22.72% | ||
therealyme | 0 | 3,465,579,518 | 8% | ||
jaykayw | 0 | 41,463,200,950 | 18% | ||
cnbuddy-reward | 0 | 708,372,314 | 0.1% | ||
roseofmylife | 0 | 269,718,029,685 | 11% | ||
gerbo | 0 | 451,360,221 | 3.3% | ||
springflower | 0 | 3,949,129,871 | 11% | ||
mychoco | 0 | 2,341,283,776 | 11% | ||
morningcare | 0 | 174,668,846,026 | 11% | ||
we-together | 0 | 41,181,902,481 | 11% | ||
jurtji | 0 | -8,805,413 | -10% | ||
frustig | 0 | -8,805,413 | -10% | ||
roamingsparrow | 0 | 6,893,151,634 | 22.5% | ||
reward.tier3 | 0 | 967,385,362 | 100% | ||
p-translation | 0 | 3,196,147,105 | 11% | ||
steemcityrewards | 0 | 8,500,198,027 | 1.98% | ||
lovequeen | 0 | 5,749,578,241 | 100% | ||
balomyt | 0 | 1,827,673,432 | 100% | ||
howlux | 0 | 1,828,231,769 | 100% | ||
olddemon | 0 | 1,828,225,430 | 100% | ||
tagal | 0 | 1,828,151,260 | 100% | ||
maybug | 0 | 1,828,227,566 | 100% | ||
godof | 0 | 1,828,121,572 | 100% | ||
navymars | 0 | 1,828,152,397 | 100% | ||
keyplex | 0 | 1,828,046,913 | 100% | ||
zgil | 0 | 1,828,009,230 | 100% | ||
corse | 0 | 1,865,948,980 | 100% | ||
dev.supporters | 0 | 38,639,181,394 | 10% | ||
sanctum | 0 | 3,816,869,017 | 100% |