RE: A reason to never start something new. by heretickitten

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· @heretickitten ·
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Oh, and be aware of the "gothic" type lifestyle. Not specifically gothic clothing/subculture, but just the idea of being a bit less mainstream in thought and feeling.

It could be that he is filled with a dark hatred of society, humanity, etc, and all that other stuff that young, intelligent, and somewhat isolated people might feel. 

As the darkest writer, the Heretic Kitten, I approve completely of the quiet, darker sort of personality.

There's no reason that every single person needs to be some smiling character, or boisterously happy fellow.

It's good to have some quiet, mysterious people who just absorb knowledge all day, and grow more and more wise, until they achieve a certain point where they can put their wisdom into action.

I think that readers generally develop extremely effective philosophies, because in my experience, it feels like I did. 

I wouldn't push this person to have a horrible job or anything either. Crappy jobs will just crush this person, and make them miserable, so demanding rent could do more harm than good. 

Not all people value shiny things. Some people see money as fetid waste, just a shiny stone that moronic apes value, but that has no value compared to the knowledge of books, philosophies, and science.

Of course, in this world, it's said that money is the key to happiness. I'm sure any person who reads books often will begin to stumble upon the harsh reality of reality. 

But letting them do this at their own pace will yield a much better result than forcing corporate slavery onto someone, just to have them "build character."
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@dwinblood ·
>but just the idea of being a bit less mainstream in thought and feeling.

Yeah this has nothing to do with that.   I kind of was in that lifestyle myself.

This son truly is a very unique personality.   You'd be hard pressed to find someone like him.

He is one of those REALLY intelligent types that can think of some pretty complex ideas, but when it comes to common sense in the social world he is oblivious.    He has a bit of that Einstein and brilliant eccentric in him.

Yet he hasn't really found anything he is truly passionate about beyond reading.   He is the one that said he wanted to be a writer and we've supported him in all of that.   He however, has not really written.

I don't know if he simply liked the IDEA of being a writer and that wasn't where his passion really is or not.    All I can do is be there with him.

I am a parent that I literally don't care what job my kids ultimately have as long as they find a way to support themselves and survive on their own if need be.   At the moment he is not quite there.

Though he is very intelligent.   He is the child I talk about in terms of mathematics in this post:

https://steemit.com/philosophy/@dwinblood/my-way-is-right-your-way-is-wrong-repost-from-10-months-ago
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@heretickitten ·
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Oddly, I feel a weird connection with him for some reason. 

My eventual passion seems to be working with cryptocurrency, doing day trading.

I've always loved mathematics, despite schools trying to rip the passion from me. But upon seeing the power of advanced blockchain technology, I began to invest.

My father gave me a few hundred dollars, and I quickly began to double it over and over and over. I have natural talent when it comes to numbers.

Steemit helps my wallet too.
I write my passionate poetry on Steemit, and that sort of thing is quite nice.

Not only that, but computer programming is a skill I also hold close to me, even if I'm pretty lousy at it. It does help at understanding lots of things involved with technology, so it's a skill that I would insist that everyone learns.

My writing and technological competence gets me noticed quickly these days, and people seem to be wanting to hire me more and more, even though I resist a bit. 

If your son is anything like me, all it will take is a bit more reading.

I read so many books, so many philosophies, but at a certain point, I just had a feeling of deep comprehension of the human psyche, and stopped reading so much, and began doing.

I'm sure this could be risque, but psychedelics could also be a possible option, if you're in a place where it's legal. I'd recommend caution, of course, but it is the sort of thing that could give a person time to deeply reflect on everything they've ever learned, read, and experienced, and let them put it into action.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2dQ5c5SIYnc
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@dwinblood ·
>If your son is anything like me, all it will take is a bit more reading.

It may be the quality of reading too.   I don't know what he's really reading these days as most of it is on his phone so I don't know if he is pushing himself a lot.

He can easily read 8-12 hours every day.   Some days other than eating, sleeping, and the restroom that is all he does.

I do that too.   He's seen me read all of his life.   However, he can do that for a month straight that what I just described are the only activities he does.
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