Dealing with Psychopaths & Sociopaths within a Community by indigoocean

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Dealing with Psychopaths & Sociopaths within a Community
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@elderson ·
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Thats deep. I have some crazy music spinning on my radio right now https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r-X8Od77s0U
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@indigoocean ·
I guess one might say that has a feel a little bit psycho.
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@elderson ·
OMG I sent you the wrong link lol https://steemit.com/radio/@elderson/kind-radio-blast-begins-now
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@yaanivapeji ·
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I think psychopaths can come about like sociopaths when they take illegal substances that turns their heads.
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@indigoocean ·
Interesting theory. I think there is some research supporting it, if I recall accurately.
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@yaanivapeji · (edited)
Yes,  or when they get a terrible accident that affects their brain or stuffs like that. It can make them psycho, I know several people like that.
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@phoneinf · (edited)
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The interesting thing with this Era is how we finally can build systems that works as Good People Training Academies and make it scale. By training regular people to empower themselves, using accountability and responsibility. 

As most people are the so called label "good", scaling a peer-to-peer Social Capital economy will be of no issue. As capital will eventually move into areas that benefit the whole community. In history manipulation and the use of various "dark traits" has been highly successful in be a success in evolution. 

In this new Economy people can scale and leverage others dark traits even. So even if someone does something that mainly works for them the network effect will make so it at the same time raise awareness of the whole space and making "good" people be triggered and be more action takers. 

Humans are experts at organise ideal Tribe systems and we done it so much that just doing it in a digital way will create an identical effect as to what we did mainly in the physical arena in the past. We are all here because we had survival traits. Anyone that was 100% selfish would not be a human right now as the gene-pool would have filtered that out. 

Surely there are all kinds of variations of Life (people) that has been developed here. The best we can do is to normalise empowerment. Making value flow to people growing the network. Making people feel more included and training people to take more actions and to show their trust and dedication. 

A lot of the weirdness that has happened in gene pools has been because of a scarcity system that has made many isolated for years. Massive inclusion and majority of the weirdness --> Fear and Scarcity, will go away.
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@indigoocean · (edited)
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Great idea to sort of fulfill the religion role of pro-community training only without making it a requirement of religious agreement. Secular humanism may have some of that seed to it. If you haven’t heard of it, you should check it out. I think you’d find it an intriguing body of knowledge. 

I don’t know we’ll get to where we can be rid of psychopaths anytime soon. I think we’ll cure male pattern baldness first. But creating communities that grow fewer sociopaths is something we definitely could do.

I think a lot of it does come down to making people feel safe. That’s about love, inclusion, intrinsic value and freedom to choose (including de facto choosing which consequences are more palatable by making the choice that will trigger those responses).
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@phoneinf · (edited)
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I'm a big lover of a Game of Thrones world with a range of various life working in a vibrant place. I find various personalities fascinating. But it mainly can happen in smaller niche places where people can thrive easier. Countries with massive populations usually have a more flat curve for people that can become a breeding ground for mental illness.

I think we humans should focus on  smaller niche communities to truly empower individuals and give them the attention and love they deserve. It takes 18 years to bring up a new human. So to re-wire 1 human will take a lot. But 1 empowered individual can change the world. So the ROI will be of no concern. It will yield well if you do it the proper way. 

Smaller communities is the way. More accountability and a more optimised system. Too big system and people turn off and ignore being an action taker. A lot because the roles are being blurred. Fear surely becomes bigger in a big place. More unknown things that may go on. Scary for people. They feel lost. Smaller all runs so much better and effective.
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@midlet · (edited)
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I feel like most psychological disorders are sort of like race. We look at someone and call a black person black or a white person white, but the reality is we're all a spectrum of all the diversity that's evolved here on Earth.

I think people's psyche are more like x% sociopath and y%psychopath, but the ones that are like 80-90% psychopath, we just call psychopaths, just like someone who is probably above 80% decedent from Africa, we'd just call black/African/African American etc.

Bit of a weird analogy but the point is I think people can definitely have some of these traits, but not be a full on sociopath or psychopath, not sure about psychopaths if that's an innate thing, but people that grow up in cultures that like you mentioned praise "manliness" and condemn "weakness", most of the (probably male) population has some degree of these tendencies. Seems that way to me at least.
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@indigoocean ·
You are definitely correct, and in fact that’s how diagnoses are made. The reality is that just about every human being has at least one trait of every single known disorder. It is the combination of traits, intransigence of them, and severity of consequences in the life of the person or those around them that adds up to form a disorder. That’s why a slang reference to the diagnostic manual is actually “the book of being human.” But at a certain point a diagnosis can become helpful because of the way our healthcare system works. In day to day life the label is far less useful than simply knowing what to do with such forces in the community.
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@geekpowered ·
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I think that perhaps in the situation with the boat, a psychopath might have actually had a greater chance of saving the person. They work harder to fit in. Sociopaths still have normal emotions to a degree, they're just warped. A psychopath might realize that saving the person might be better for them, as they might be seen as a hero, where as if they did nothing, they could be found out as a psychopath.
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@indigoocean ·
Good point. Yeah, psychopaths have a lot of self-control and pre-meditation. They understand people well enough to be very good at manipulation. They particularly understand the acquisition of power. Sociopaths tend to be bad at all those things. Still dangerous if you get in their way though.
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@geekpowered ·
I wonder about that... How dependent on intelligence is all that? Someone of average intelligence might be capable enough of manipulation though. We're actually taught to not manipulate people. It's actually relatively easy if you don't have those things people like to call "scruples". But it would likely be a lot easier for those of more intelligence. We associate a lot of things with psychopaths that are easier for the highly intelligent. Of course, when you're not burdened by emotion... Not that they're completely emotionless necessarily...
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@newageinv ·
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Great insight as to these details I have never really considered as we sometimes tend to live in a bubble.  However, this becomes more relevant given the challenges and behaviors we see going on in the world today.  So scary to consider given how closely we now live amongst communities.
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@indigoocean ·
I think in general there is a tendency to anticipate from others similar perspectives and even motivations to one's own. At some level we know there is diversity in these things, but we still keep imagining a world of similar folks walking around. That's why people rarely spot the psychopaths in their midst.
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@curatorcat ·
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It's a very complex issue, to be sure. I find myself wondering how many of these people are "created" as a sort of backwash from what has become — in essence — a very narcissistic and self-involved society. We live in "Selfie-world" where every day we are subjected to the collective "highlight reels" of everyone's lives, perhaps giving rise to levels of envy, jealousy, competition... leading to levels of rage we have not previously seen. 

Meanwhile, when you feel "unseen" and powerless, how do you make a splash? By acting out (often supported by social media) in a way that gives you notoriety. So there's more freedom to act out than in times past... it's more *endorsed,* because (after all!) it gains you twitter followers. 

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@indigoocean ·
You're describing narcissists, and they are definitely growing in prevalence in some societies. (I don't think I have to tell you which.) Narcissism is actually a very serious disorder, despite the term being thrown around a lot to describe people who are simply selfish or vain. It only means that in riffing on Greek myth. As a disorder it means the person is incapable of forming meaningful emotional attachments, despite wanting to if they aren't also a psychopath. It is impossible for them to ever feel satisfaction, despite there trying tirelessly to do everything right. They are very hard on themselves, and also on anyone who gets close to them. The closer you get to them, the more they start treating you with the same condemnation they direct at themselves, because you come to be an extension of them, and they never find themselves perfect enough either.

Really there is a lot of suffering for them. Easy to have compassion at a distance, but hard to actively have it when you have to interact with them, because they are really unpleasant a lot of the time. Always there is a tenseness when around them, like you can feel you're being judged and competed with. That's because you are. 

It's all quite fascinating and why I enjoyed working with young people in the field in my first career. My job was to help those who were simply developing into these disorders, but didn't yet have them fixed (just traits) side step the solidification phase. Many times it worked. In those moments you know you really saved a life, as well as a lot of suffering for many others. 

Then there are those you get who are people like child molesters, who are almost always psychopaths. Thankfully the one time I had one of those assigned I was still and intern, so my supervisor wound up taking the case away from me to work it herself, because he was successfully getting me to believe his lies from the first session.
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@stellabelle ·
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I can think of one person who fits this description perfectly.

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@indigoocean ·
Me too, and I think we both know his handle. LOL
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@stellabelle ·
Actually 2

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@stellabelle ·
Most people cannot recognize the sociopaths that lie directly in front of them.

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@indigoocean ·
Yep. And the psychopaths are even harder to spot.
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@mountainjewel ·
I can certainly see how the indifference of an institution or the prodding to “be a man” can lead to sociopathy. I wonder, in old traditions, if a shaman, for example, could “root” it out with the help of spirit beings. I am not a determinist and I don’t think people are stuck one way- but obviously the person themself must be willing and desire a shift on some level.

Obviously this kind of thing is troubling, which is why we usually avoid thinking/talking about it. 

One of the most troubling aspects is that the motivations or “things to attain” on the list of these types of individuals: power, wealth, money, etc are often things that, once attained in our culture, give a somewhat god like impenetrable status. People look up to and listen to people who have attained these sorts of things. Trump is an example. He’s a horrible human being with a trail of sociopathic behavior and yet “good Christian people” support him up and down. Normal Judgment is taken over by some kind of glam and sheen and what would normally be ostracized is made into a presidency.

We talked about how to address this. On one layer I think it boils down to what people value, what we’re told and sold through ads (the seeds to desire wealth), and how this sets the stage for sociopaths and psychopaths to thrive. Yet this requires changing the gestalt of the culture. I’m sure the desire for wealth is pretty much as normalized as the air we breathe and many spend their whole lives going after it. What I mean is that the psychopathic tendency to strive for these things and the way they go about it is rewarded in the end by our society. 

We also potentially have a whole governmental / bank system chalked full of these types of individuals who are also making the laws (and defended in court by more psychopaths...) and a blind & passive populace. I guess that’s why I tend to ignore this type of stuff and go about creating the life I value and believe in. How can we even begin to change it? Tearing down the whole terrible system isn’t a day’s work, it takes calculated long term action, a focused tactic and a whole host of people.
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@indigoocean · (edited)
It does take a lot to reverse the tide, which has definitely been flowing in the direction of those who undermine social cohesion and well-being. I would say that even the shift toward our culture aggrandizing the strengths of the psychopath has been a part of the successful scheming of psychopaths. It's because they're so effective that the rest of us have to be so committed ourselves. 

Sociopaths can somewhat be helped to create lives that support the well-being of their community, assuming they can bond with someone who makes them care to. Psychopaths can no more be "reformed" than a diabetic can be made immune to sugar. It is a physiological condition. And I don't want to get into a world where the government decides to start doing brain surgery on those labeled psychopaths in an effort to "cure" it. So I think the answer has to lie in what we do with other people, how we influence the culture ourselves.

A lot of what you're doing in creating your life the way you want and sharing that journey with others is a part of creating that counter-narrative of what success means. Sometimes you also talk about how you collaborate with neighbors, which goes even further in the anti-psychopath-values direction. The stronger that story gets, the weaker the idea of success over others gets. 

But we also need people to go into the lion's den with a different dominant narrative and attain the power to keep the psychopaths in check. We need your everyday narcissist at the helm, not the psychopaths. 

And that really comes down to the right people running for political office, judicial office and even PTA president, and others bothering to vote and encouraging others to vote for those ones. 

You can be sure the psychopaths are well organized, with powerful champions out rallying troops. But a lot of people who want a world better than the narcissists or psychopaths offer just tune out, so cede the making of our laws, norms and policies to the psychopaths. 

Hence we have a new definition of organic chicken now that no longer requires the chickens ever set foot outdoors in their lifetimes. And we have laws that prevented the dumping of toxic waste into our rivers repealed. And we have the children of asylum seekers put in camps with no way to identify their parents to return them.

That's the world that psychopaths make. And we all wind up touched by it sooner or later, so best we stay involved in limiting it however we can from the start.

(edit: Apart from politics though, there are also other places cultural norms are made, such as in art. For example, making movies that are affirming of healthy pro-community values, and others spending the  money and taking the time to go see those movies and tell others about them.)
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@riverflows ·
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I find it extraordinary that psychopaths do get free rein and no one recognises them for what they are - but as you say, that's the clever manipulative ability of psychopaths. 

The power of community is strong indeed - I'm struck though by the 'ostracism' bit in today's world (just one thought train I'm following over coffee right now, just waking up - there's lots in this I could respond to) - that can lead to other issues, though, can't it? Ostracise enough and the retaliation can be dire. 

> This is one of the reasons people used to be so unwelcoming towards strangers, particularly a single person. They suspected this reason for the change of location and lack of family. 

That's fascinating, isn't it? Because taking someone in is also a value - caring for lost souls, so to speak. 

It's all really interesting, thanks for this food for thought. I'm watching the new series of American Horror and the warlock raised in the Horror House (I know right, such parellels with society haha) was clearly a psychopath from birth. There's a really cool scene in which Jessica Lange, the adopted mother, keep planting rose bushes over the top of the dead bodies - hiding his crimes and hoping the goodness will overpower the evil psychopath of a son that was clearly born that way. In the end, she gets 'sick of the smell of roses' - and the whole garden is full of them, barely containing the evil underneath. It's not until I read this article and sat on that scene for a while did I start seeing the beautiful metaphor it is for what we can tend to do - ignore what's in our midst, grin and bear it, and do nothing to stop it until it's too late. A grim picture, perhaps, but an interesting one. 
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@indigoocean ·
Wow, that sounds like a really intense show. Don't know that I could handle it neurologically LOL! 

Yes, no one really wants to have to face the reality of these people in our midst. And the reality is, we never get it perfectly right. Which means horrible mistakes will be made, such as a town being unwelcoming toward a new arrival who was fleeing violence, not causing it. This was more the case many years ago, and now people move in and out of big cities all the time, but there is also a parallel with I think how people think of refugees. There is a primal part of them that perceives those fleeing as guilty, "they must have done something to deserve to be run out." They don't see prejudice as the problem, because they don't face their own prejudice.

There is a lot more that can be said about numerous facets of this. But not to go on too long.

Thanks so much for your thoughtful comment.
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