Do this if the work you do is not supported by the family! by khanza.aulia

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Do this if the work you do is not supported by the family!
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Everyone has the right to work according to their wishes. Many people want to work according to their wishes, but the family has not supported them. Meanwhile, some people have to work according to family requests, while it is not according to his wishes. This is what makes depressed people do their jobs.

Well, for those of you who are struggling to work according to your passion, but don't get full support in the family, don't be sad. You are not wrong while doing positive work. Do the following tips if your family doesn't support your current job.

* ***1. Explain to the Family that the Work You Choose is in accordance with Passion***

Many families have not understood their children's passion. Families usually have work choices for their children based on their wishes. Unfortunately, children also have their own job choices that are in accordance with their interests and talents. This is what ultimately makes children and parents often fight. For those of you who are currently working not according to the wishes of parents and do not get support, try to convey and explain to them, that the work you choose is in accordance with your passion or interest.

* ***2. Ensure Them that You Will Succeed With Your Job***

Maybe not because parents don't support the work you choose. Sometimes they are only worried if your work does not generate a lot of income, does not bring you success as they wish. When they begin to doubt and worry about you, try to convince them that you will pursue the job. So that what you do can bring success in the future.

* ***3. Show that You are Happy with the Job***

Every parent always wants his child's life to be happy. If the parents don't initially support the work you choose, make sure that the job can make you happy. So you can show your parents that you feel happy and comfortable with the work you are doing right now. By seeing their children happy every day of their work, this will make parents gradually understand and understand their children's work choices.


* ***4. Show Your Achievements***

Finally, even if you get little support from your family or not at all, now is the right time to show them your achievements. Even though it takes a long time and process, show the achievements or achievements that you have achieved and get from the work you have chosen. Make your parents feel proud and confident that their children don't choose the wrong job.

*So, that's 4 ways you need to do when you don't get family support for the work you choose. Making parents happy is mandatory, but that doesn't mean sacrificing your own happiness in choosing a job. Instead, prove it to parents with your chosen job.*


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@yacham ·
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