<html> <p>Most men approach the subject of getting close to women like it’s warfare. They talk about “crashing and burning”, moving in on her like it’s an assault on enemy territory and making a conquest. This kind of stuff only works because women like men despite all the crap they pull. Here’s a better idea – try doing what really works, in real life. Get your head screwed on straight and get this part of your life managed in a way that works for everybody.</p> <p><img src="https://i.imgsafe.org/73039cc8c6.jpg" width="1920" height="1080"/></p> <p>The first thing you need to master is the fear. Yes, admit that there’s at least a bit of fear in connecting with some new female and you’re ahead of the pack. That “fear” is just natural excitement that’s been connected with past rejections. You get excited, you get rejected, and you associate the excitement with pain. Fear is the result.</p> <p>For some guys, the best thing to do is just approach a bunch of women with no other goal than to say, “Hi” and make a comment about the situation you are both in. Once you discover that you can open a conversation without your head exploding, which may be enough to “deprogram” the fear response. It may take more than that for you. Read on.</p> <p><img src="https://i.imgsafe.org/7304841884.jpg" width="1080" height="810"/></p> <p>It also helps to understand what is attractive to women. Unlike most guys, women don’t necessarily hook up with just the ones that look really good. Women understand that many really good-looking guys are gay. They get turned on by what’s going on inside their own heads, not by what they see with their eyes. If you know how to lead a woman through the process of attraction that works for them, you’ll never have to worry about your looks again.</p> <p><img src="https://i.imgsafe.org/7306330284.jpg" width="1080" height="988"/></p> <p>Attraction isn’t a choice; it’s a process, a series of steps. Women have no conscious control over becoming attracted to a man. That’s why they work so hard at “screening out” guys in advance. They reject men left and right because they’re constantly being approached – because they’re women. Men pitch, women catch. Once you see that there’s a reliable way to short-circuit her rejection response, you won’t have to worry about being cut off before you have the chance to connect with her.</p> <p>All you need to do is understand the process of getting from, “Hi” to, “Why, without your clothes, you’re NAKED, Debbie!” You’ll need to have a reliable response to each step in the process of getting under her skin. You need to be natural, not putting on an act.</p> <p> <img src="https://i.imgsafe.org/730820a286.jpg" width="750" height="750"/></p> <p>There’s no such thing as a “killer pickup line” or tip that will matter more than being familiar with this process and not screwing it up. There are tactics and techniques you can use, but they’re just icing on the cake. The main thing to understand is that she’s looking for something bigger than just herself. She wants a man who won’t be put off by her silly crap and tests. She wants to be swept away.</p> </html>
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| category | relationships |
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