"Don't beat yourself up, it's not that bad" is the refrain we hear time again. We've all heard this mantra at one time or another as we attempt to deal with life's daily trials. But, what if beatification of your life is as bad as not living at all? It is not bad to beat yourself up! In fact, it is a great sense of accomplishment when you do. https://www.incimages.com/uploaded_files/image/1920x1080/getty_482615794_2000149620009280166_123869.jpg [](https://www.incimages.com/uploaded_files/image/1920x1080/getty_482615794_2000149620009280166_123869.jpg) The first step in becoming overconfident is to admit that you're afraid. This alone will help you get over your hang-ups. Don't beat yourself up about it! Instead, acknowledge that you're a little scared and try to understand what makes you fearful. You might not understand the fear that is eating you inside, but it is there and it is controlling you. The best thing to do is not to fight it and, instead, to just stay calm and collected and realize that things will work out. Overconfidence can kill you in life. Overconfidence also can cost you relationships and affect your career. Don't let fear of rejection keep you from pursuing your dreams. If you don't believe in your own ability, how can you expect others to do so? If you don't beat yourself up about your weaknesses, you will be okay with them. This will free you up to build confidence and become the best you can be in everything you do. Don't allow setbacks to hold you back! It's important to be positive in your life and the only way to be positive is to beat yourself up about nothing. I'm sure you've heard the saying "life is too short." The truth is that life isn't short, but it could be long. The main point to remember is that you have the ability to choose how you live your life, not the other way around. If you make a decision to use fear or self-pity as a means to an end, then you won't be happy. Don't beat yourself up because something didn't go your way. I know that if you were miserable, you probably wouldn't do anything. Instead, you would move on and try something else. Life is supposed to be good for you and make you happy! It's important to always find a reason to be happy. Why are you here? Why are you living this life? Why are you doing the things that you are doing? If you don't find a reason to be happy, you will constantly be unhappy and, eventually, you will lose the ability to enjoy life! Life isn't bad, it's just hard. You are lucky to be alive. Nobody wants to live a boring life. There is so much potential in life and so many great opportunities. Stay focused on the opportunities that are right in front of you, and you will find life isn't that bad after all! The key to having fun is to relax and take time for yourself. If you need to take out, go for a walk, go watch a movie with your friends. Just being around other people will help you relax and forget about everything for a few minutes. If you're still beating yourself up about missing work, let go of that. Work is work. It's what makes the world go around. You have to do it. Some days you will do it better than others, but you will definitely get out there and face your fears and triumphs. Just remember to have fun with it and not to beat yourself up over it! Being grateful is another huge key to enjoying life. Sometimes when things go wrong, we can start to worry too much. We think we have to control every little thing. If you start to worry, you can't enjoy life. So, be grateful for every little opportunity that comes your way. https://cdn.wealthygorilla.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/09/How-to-Stop-Beating-Yourself-Up.jpg [](https://cdn.wealthygorilla.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/09/How-to-Stop-Beating-Yourself-Up.jpg) If you find yourself in a tough spot, don't beat yourself up about it. Some of us just have bad days. But, if you can look at the bright side of even the worst situation, you will be able to see the good in it. Look at all the great opportunities that are coming your way. Don't beat yourself up about it.
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