Edit, I am out of the dark cave, went through the dark woods and adjusting to bright sunlight ;-)...I think the only way this behavior will stop is through education and healing modalities that deal with deep rooted conditioning. When our Sexuality is abused it becomes a core trauma, when used as a trauma conditioning tool it plants seeds that go the the core of our base behavior programming. Kinda like a root type hack in a computer system...am I using the right technical analogy?

This type of conditioning is used in warfare all the time, rape and pillage ....In Africa whole nations have been broken by the rape and white sex trade culture. On a global scale we are a very psychologically troubled species. 

I used to rescue hunting dogs who were abused and saw abused horses act just like us humans. I think the whole of humanity is suffering from varies levels of abuse through trauma betrayal and bonding.