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# Confusion 
Such as you disagreeing with your own statement if people don’t read past the first paragraphed for further clarification:

“don't feel comfortable with this at all after reading that she will only receive the liquid rewards”

“But now that I realise you are taking the liquid rewards from this”

Some people seem to think you are accusing him of taking the liquid reward from this post for himself?  I assume you are talking about illiquid rewards the STEEM portion. You do clarify that up further in your comment where most don’t bother reading

But that just shows how few people even bothered to read “am donating the liquid rewards to her” I guess they all were just too busy patting themselves on the back for “doing the right thing” which would have been up voting her blogs and comments more than his post. This was very kind of you, and many others to do. More people should be encouraged to do the same. Rather they just want be butt hurt over their own lack of reading. 

# Claims of No
Then there your claims of her saying “no” which is being rather unfair to dianargenti.  She uses words like “don’t worry, ”trying hard here but we can cope,” “I guess,” and a lot of other langue in the example you quoted. Expect those are not meaning “not” to more help. If you ever been poor, or have worked with poor people you understand  that just someone trying be polite and not wanting to cause more trouble than they already have in asking. It’s definitely not a “no” to being help out more.

This is however getting off the main message the community really needs to learn about blogs like this. Go upvote the people in need not those requesting help for people in need. 

# Should I even remain
I’m just trying work out here if I should even remain a member of his community or not. People seem to be using miss-information to burn him at the stake. Unless I’m mistaken he did disclose that the “liquid” reward was going to her. I see that as often as I see people offer up the whole reward. Granted I disagree with that which is why I upvoted more on her own comments/blogs before I ever upvoted this. 

I have voiced my own concerts directly to him in:

* Remove all your wallet address and only include hers. Include a link back to where she states it's hers.

* Remove your “some of my recent blogs” section.

* And some other things to make this more about helping her out.