闺蜜聊什么 by dancingapple

cn · @dancingapple · Apr 25 '18 (edited)

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闺蜜聊什么

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<p>故事要从哪里讲起呢？<br>
从我和她在舞蹈室确认过眼神你就是我爱的人说起？<br>
从我们手捧鲜花参加彼此毕业典礼说起？<br>
从我们经历挫折疯癫吃辣买醉的深夜说起？</p>
<p>&nbsp;不不不，故事，从一根验孕棒说起。</p>
<p>&nbsp;如果你看过《女文青的爱》，大概就会知道，我的这一位女神。<br>
 在验孕棒之前，还是要交代一下背景的。我的女神忌廉，曾经长发及腰，长裙及踝，在河边芦苇群里素颜入镜也没在怕的。<br>
追她的人有很多，老腊肉小鲜肉多肉应有尽有，后来，她把绣球抛给了一个她觉得很温暖的人。&nbsp;</p>
<p>她是个非常文艺的人，婚前婚后，她把小日子都过成了诗。这画风，在那根验孕棒之后逐渐改变了……<br>
 由于反应实在太大，还有另外的原因，她决定辞职专心在家养胎。 在她孩子出生后，我们共同的另一个闺蜜小孩几个月大，闺蜜群话题在不知不觉中变成了——</p>
<blockquote>&nbsp;#结婚？呵呵 &nbsp;<br>
#男人究竟是要来干什么用的<br>
#论猪一样的队友<br>
# 很累很缺觉<br>
#好想离婚 ……&nbsp;</blockquote>
<p>偶尔她会“愤恨”地跟我说：</p>
<blockquote>#我刚冲凉冲了很久，把热水都洗完了，也把加热的开关关了，让他自己慢慢等吧！ <br>
#他最好别来惹我！我不敢保证不会打死他！ <br>
#我现在眼里只有我儿子，对他已经很心寒了，爱过不过。<br>
#我现在去一趟太古汇都不敢抬头走路了…… <br>
#如果有一天我累死了，我儿子该怎么办……叫另外一个女人妈妈么？</blockquote>
<p>&nbsp;最近两个月，她的状态似乎特别差，连续不断的感冒，又加上戒奶反复、孩子生病，婆媳之间的矛盾，夫妻之间的间隙等等，都让这位昔日只有风花雪月的女孩子临近崩溃的边缘。 <br>
她又沮丧地说——&nbsp;</p>
<blockquote>我觉得保洁阿姨都比我强多了。&nbsp;</blockquote>
<p>我明白，这足足两年的闭关，让她的世界狭窄到只剩下一个嗷嗷待哺的娃娃和四面墙。<br>
有几个女孩子能接受从飘逸长发到油腻短发、从95斤到130斤的落差。<br>
有谁天生就会做妻子和妈妈。 <br>
有谁可以为别人完全奉献自己而放弃自由和梦想。</p>
<p>&nbsp;虽然凯特生完三胎没几个小时就穿着美丽的红裙子高跟鞋光鲜亮丽地出现在大家面前；虽然女政客生下孩子没几天就抱着娃娃跟一群大男人博弈；虽然女明星刚生下孩子就马上恢复了苗条的身材仿佛只是去医院捡了个孩子。 并不是每一个女孩都有这个条件和能耐的。难道这就是一件不对的事情吗？&nbsp;</p>
<p>在还对婚姻生活怀抱着憧憬的时候，一系列的责任来得猝不及防，以为自己做好了准备，可是才发现，一切只是个开始，而且并没有想象中的那么容易。<br>
 哭过，累过，煎熬过，孤单过，累积了二十多年的自信也被抽离许多，她却因此而变得丰满。</p>
<p>&nbsp;她终于狠下心完全戒奶，自己一个人背着行李回娘家，自己一个人去逛了曾经走过无数次的大街小巷、幼儿园、小学、初中；自己一个人去吃那久违的小美食；自己一个人踩单车去郊外吹风。&nbsp;</p>
<p>今天，是她出山的第一天，她说——&nbsp;</p>
<blockquote>#可怕！对面的女孩今天穿露肩装，我穿长袖还裹个披肩！都在窗边坐着，差别咋那么大？ <br>
#好困啊……昨晚睡沙发，宝宝一哭一闹就要起来，没有连续睡上三个钟。&nbsp;</blockquote>
<p>我说，那你还坚持上班？ <br>
她说，嗯，至少，那10个小时心不累。&nbsp;</p>
<p><strong>原来，有一种幸福叫做，在有娃以后，加班都是放假……&nbsp;</strong></p>
<p>傍晚时分，她下班了，边走边给我发语音，说——&nbsp;</p>
<blockquote>你知道我部门那些人多大么？……95后……我们这90后好艰难有木有……生个娃出来，世界都变了。<br>
我要努力啦！既要赚钱养家又要貌美如花！要减肥减肥！&nbsp;</blockquote>
<p>听着她轻快愉悦的语气，我突然觉得，<strong>“价值感”</strong>对一个人来说真的是很重要。&nbsp;</p>
<p><br>
说到意义，她回我一句——</p>
<blockquote>敢问世界上有多少事是有意义的？&nbsp;</blockquote>
<p>我说，哎哟，你这小妞，居然不是傻白甜了！&nbsp;</p>
<p>她拽拽地说——</p>
<blockquote>哼，越来越现实了我！&nbsp;</blockquote>
<p>哈哈，敲可爱。&nbsp;</p>
<p>最后，改一首歌的歌词送给她——&nbsp;</p>
<blockquote>婚姻的建构句 并不是说想你 <br>
相爱与相处没直接关系 <br>
<br>
婚姻的的肯定句 并不是说爱你 <br>
爱得再亲密也会有缝隙 <br>
<br>
婚姻的否定句 并不是不爱你 <br>
一段感情有多少的风雨 <br>
<br>
走过多少风景 是天晴或是阴雨 <br>
至少伞下有宝宝和你 <em>&nbsp;</em></blockquote>
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<p><br></p>
<p>如果你的妻子为你生儿育女，这是她对你最深沉的爱，请感恩至永远并且不要吝啬赞美她。</p>
<p><br>
如果她为了家庭而选择做全职主妇，出去介绍她时请不要说“她现在没有工作”，要知道在家带小孩是多么艰苦的一项事业。 你永远不知道她是有多强烈的责任心和爱才甘愿放弃外面的世界而24小时无休无止负责小孩的生活。</p>
<p>如果你的下属怀孕生子，这真的很不容易，请多加照顾！&nbsp;</p>
<p>如果你的应聘者中有重出江湖的妈妈，请多一点欣赏和尊重，不说别的，一个连熊孩子都不怕的人，你真的别怀疑她的勇气和坚韧。 &nbsp;</p>
<p>文章最后，祝福我的小忌廉开心如意，工作顺利。</p>
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@pgr · Apr 25 '18

哎呀，又是閨蜜話題，又是驗孕棒，小p點讚的時候臉都紅了呢~
鄭重說明，我是進來看畫的，畫得真好！
不是被“閨蜜聊什麼”吸引的。

👍 dancingapple

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@dancingapple · Apr 25 '18

一般看我的文章都是需要家长指引的哈哈哈哈哈

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@dancingapple · Apr 25 '18

我有很多好画，欢迎交流

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@pgr · Apr 25 '18

向苹老师学习！

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@itchyfeetdonica · Apr 25 '18 (edited)

我记得《女文青的爱》是不是结尾有个爆笑的电影字幕翻译那篇？而你这篇又延续了同样的风格 只是这字幕有点心酸

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@dancingapple · Apr 25 '18

是啊，也是写的她。再次强调一句：你的记忆力太惊人了！😂

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@itchyfeetdonica · Apr 25 '18

呵呵 可能是以前考高级口译练出来的

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@dancingapple · Apr 25 '18

另外不知道你有没有看过这电影：一件幸福的事

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@itchyfeetdonica · Apr 25 '18

没有 刚搜了下 女大学生意外当妈？有空去找来看看
我只看过部Juno 女中学生意外当妈 你看过没 超棒 里面的音乐也是

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@cnbuddy · Apr 25 '18

你好！cn区点赞机器人 @cnbuddy 谢谢你对cn区的贡献。倘若你想让我隐形，请回复“取消”。

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@dancingapple · Apr 25 '18

^ - ^

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@hqy · Apr 25 '18

原来，有一种幸福叫做，在有娃以后，加班都是放假…… 

这语言的表现力不是一般的拽，都刻进我脑袋了！

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@dancingapple · Apr 26 '18

谢谢贺老师😋😋

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@tumutanzi · Apr 25 '18

$0.94

感觉上你应该还是未婚，但是你懂得太多了。

希望你将来、永远都优雅~无论是姑娘还是人妻~

👍 tumutanzi, penghuren

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@eduter · Apr 26 '18

嗯，还带有些美好

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@dancingapple · Apr 26 '18

蟹蟹~辣肆必需滴~~

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@aaronli · Apr 26 '18

我本來也認識很多年青媽媽，都看起來身材很好很漂亮
故看了你的文很有感觸
不過在感受這片情緒時，不小心回看了標題
閨蜜聊什麼.....那就是說.......🙈

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@dancingapple · Apr 26 '18

圈重点：认识很多身材很好很漂亮的美女～哈哈。有感触很好，所以要学会体谅妈妈和太太哦

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@aaronli · Apr 26 '18

為什麼你總能把我的說話聯繫到美女...

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@veronicazhu · Apr 26 '18

有你这样的闺蜜真好。
苹果，我对你的爱又多了一分❤️

我身边也有这样的同事，上班才有时间放松，回家又得备战状态应对2个儿子。
我敬佩妈妈们，特别是全职妈妈，是得要有多大的爱和勇气才放弃追求自由和自我的机会。

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@dancingapple · Apr 26 '18

我对你爱爱爱不完～
职场妈妈也很不容易，挺着大肚子还开会吃快餐

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@wilhb81 · Apr 26 '18

这篇文章，应该给做丈夫的看！

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@dancingapple · Apr 26 '18

对！

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@vickylin · Apr 26 '18

妹纸…日常恐婚的我看完表示不结婚是正确的🙆
其实身边的闺蜜，结婚、生头胎、二胎、离婚、再婚的都有，唯独一次没嫁过的只有我。我和妈妈说：
>我自己都没活明白，所以我不敢结婚，更不敢有小孩。

我不记得是这里的谁曾经和我说，那么多人结婚生孩子抱怨婚姻抱怨身材走样，但几乎没有人后悔自己生了孩子。
于是我在想，那么多人婚姻不幸福但又想要孩子，但这个国度却并未给女性单独生育孩子的权利。单亲妈妈很辛苦，但想起婆媳关系、小三小四小五、家暴等一系列问题，突然觉得一个人对自己的人生负责也未尝不是一种幸事

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@dancingapple · Apr 26 '18

妹砸，不管结不结婚生不生娃，生活多少都会遇到比较狗血的情况，这并不是选了婚姻这条路才出现的状况。确实对比很多国家，我们的生育环境并不大好，像我闺蜜这种情况的很多，又要貌美如花又要赚钱养家还要做个贤妻良母，真的很不容易。难取舍的地方太多了，想得清楚可能就什么都不敢做了。但还是会去努力的，不管结婚也好单身也好，往更好的方向走，像你说的，要对自己的人生负责是一种幸事。

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@veronicazhu · Apr 26 '18

苹果，你怎么会有如此多透彻的领悟呢？

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@vickylin · Apr 26 '18

哈哈，我赞同你的说法。我现在经常会处于无限的suppose的状态，但是人生其实真的不是想象出来，而是真切的去过出来的。在我没有想好之前，先为自己的人生负责吧～

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@veronicazhu · Apr 26 '18

我觉得哪天咱俩有机会在杭州面基，会有说不完的话，哈哈哈😂

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@vickylin · Apr 26 '18

好呀好呀，或者我们俩组团去HK祸害苹果去呀(*☻-☻*)

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@linda65 · Apr 26 '18

$0.07

婚前都是花前月下，婚后是柴米油盐，有了孩子后，隐藏的矛盾又会升级一个层次。

👍 linda65

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@dancingapple · Apr 26 '18

在理~~

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