There Are Two Kinds Of Negative Feedback... by kaylinart

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There Are Two Kinds Of Negative Feedback...
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There are two kinds of negative feedback... Dissenting opinion and constructive criticism. 

For example, the constructive criticism would be like them telling you WHY they hated what you produced, and advice on how they think it could better. 

# Personal Attacks #
Everything is wrong with you; You're stupid, Your stuff sucks. You're a failure! These are personal attacks. They usually provide no value for you, Unlike constructive Criticism that can help you. 

# What Does A Bad Review Mean? #
Obviously, They didn't like it. But A bad review doesn't always mean that your creation is a bad one, It often means that it's the wrong target market. 
<a href="http://imgur.com/zPnUN87"><img src="http://i.imgur.com/zPnUN87.jpg" title="source: imgur.com" /></a>
# There are lots of pissy people Out there #
It's almost like many people loom the internet, As incredibly angry people. Their only goal is to cause problems and upset you. These people will not hesitate to leave you a nasty review, Or try and do things to hurt you. It's not always you, Sometimes its them. 

# Someone NEEDS To hate you. #
I gotta admit When I got my first thumbs down on one my videos. I started to tear up a little bit. WHAT DID I DO WRONG!? Why did someone hate my video? But then I realized something important.

- You are nobody until someone hates you.
I'm not saying my channel is big or anything, It's still just a sprinkle of insignificant dust, But getting a thumb down means SOMEONE watched my video. Before that, I only got the occasional thumbs up. Which means I'm getting somewhere.
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## What do you do when you hate something? ##
When most people hate something that's not very popular on the internet, They tend to ignore it. Especially if the person is small. Like why waste your time attacking a person that has no presence? You were often dont. So it's possible that I received thumbs down because the person saw that I was growing, Who knows maybe they are concerned. 

When you have haters, You are gaining traction. 

# Develop friendships! #
They say that in order to survive, You need 1,000 true fans. So develop friendships with people. Make everyone love you. 

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@michaelstobiersk · 
Very interesting perspective.
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@kaylinart · 
Thank you  :)
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@michaelstobiersk · 
You're welcome.
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@doitvoluntarily · 
great minds think alike! haha :) great post! upvoted
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@kaylinart · 
Thank you :)
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@onceuponatime · 
I hope you're right :-)
I got another hater today.
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@kaylinart · 
Hehe Thats good :) Just don't let them bring you down!
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@edje · 
When someone is negative towards me, I start to think "why is that person negative to me?"Exactly that question, results in re-thinking what I did, and when discovering I may have done something that is not right, I can change this. In the end this makes me a better person, I think. Likely this works for all of us.

Surely, some of the people out there are trying to keep people who become successful, down; The jealous type of people. But for sure, not all; Luckily :)

Interestingly in marketing one of the basic views is: "bad press is also good press". When people are putting you down, you will likely benefit from it.

Upvoted and Following you.
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@matrixdweller · (edited)
What about whale on minnow rape culture
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@kaylinart · 
What!?! LOL
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@matrixdweller · 
too often it goes unreported lol
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@scaredycatguide · (edited)
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So true and a piece of constructive criticism related to this piece would be;  In your posts you tend to capitalize words that follow a comma, which does not need to be done in most cases.    As seen in my last sentence.

Cases you would capitalize after a common are less common, mainly when using a person's name or the name of a place.  Hope this helps! ;-)
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@kaylinart · 
Oh geez! Thank you! I have some bad habits like that. I didn't realize I had that one too. I know I like to capitalize random words in a sentence too haha! Grammarly checks my spelling, but it unfortunately misses those. 

Thank you for your tips.
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@hexdek16 · 
I got a @steemcleaners "Slap" because they didn't agree with my content being used on #steemit.  A couple of folks "Flagged" them for it - this I don't agree with, but I also don't agree with the steem-suckers quantifying my content by their personal selection.
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@kaylinart · 
What do you mean? 
I feel like the community here is pretty nice and understanding. Could the whole thing be some kind of mix up? 
Were you copying and pasting?

Because of the Steemit community still growing, I understand that some subjects may not be as well liked as others. I feel like as it grows though There will be groups of people on all kinds of content and it will be a bit more balanced.
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@hilarski · (edited)
I embrace my Haters!

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