I think humans are always drawn to drama and a lot of the time create it, I don't think we'll ever reach world peace :(

Different desire but mutual need the blood of one another and have been set in this life

Great. Thanks for sharing. I'm starting to follow you.

Great topic @honeybee
Thanks for sharing

Actually human always love drama in any situation.

seen it ages ago but was a good movie

quite interesting buddy
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you know there is saying, the grass on the other side is always greener. are you living a  happy and peaceful life? and do you think if there was pain and suffering and  chaos, life would be more adventurous? trust me its not.

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Great words! Thanks for such a nice sharing, My upvote for you @honeybee

I think an important role in this life is stability, loyalty and commitment in a relationship.The stability of life was created by constantly create internal changes as an answer from cycle changes external. The answer is to be in the form of reaction fit because if not, the changes that you do to answer can be precisely in the form of a problem alias happened gap and instabilitas. In conclusion, the reaction of the match contained in the courage to leave the majority of the norm long inadequate and instead, creating a new normal more.


Loyalty, if there question "what thing can not be bought with money?", maybe some people would mention love, happiness,or time as the anwers. These three things indeed can not bebought money, but there is one more thing that sometimes escape the attention of many people, namely loyalty.

Commitment, i think " when you are willing to give your time and energy to something that you believe in, or a promise or firm decision to do something" --Cambridge Advanced Learner's Dictionary.

Commitment is something that makes a personwilling to leave everything valuable in order to meet the cll of his life, even though the price that must be paidnot less and the terrain didn't light.

@Syahruddin

When we are obviously NOT ready for a relationship, or when we have problem of self-love, our subconscious bring us to be attracted by the wrong person, which bring us to be hurt and have drama.

I could see myself and my partner in the poem, all the way! Beautiful poem, Honeybee! I am looking forward to moreeee! Following you right away. Thank you so much for sharing it. 

Its her Birthday on Thursday and I was thinking of gifting her a book with a poem as a note. Now I know how to express what I feel :)

Everybody at some point wants to experience what we haven't had yet. Some aim for the drama and hurt whether it be for themselves or others.

If you wrote it, let me tell you: you are a pretty good writer!...
These days, I've been posing many of those questions, I even made a post talking about it ...

I will not leave the link here, for not to make "spam" ... 
but I'll leave you a fragment, just for sharing:

At some point in our life, we all go through situations in which we become "capricious" hardened ... Although our psyche is logical and rational, and know what is the decision we must make; the heart, in an act of rebellion intervenes to start a pitched battle (to death, by the way) and make us change our minds every time we have "decided" to do the right thing ...

...

Why did you keep insisting on something that you knew was not right?
Because you are a PASSIONATE, a capricious; your rebellious heart, IT WIN THE BATTLE ... and turned you into a capricious.
...
We will always have the perfect *ace*, the wonderful and infallible excuse that life must be lived, that we learn from failures, that we only live once, that it was not in our hands, that it was the fault of the heart. .. That  who does not risk, does not win ... That we are rebels by choice and not by bad decision ...

Sorry if my fragment is very long, but I relate it very much with what you wrote!.

Very very good job!!
Im following you!!
Greetings from Venezuela!!

Lovely.

nice pic

It's just there is need of both positive and negative forces if their no negative forces how we will love positive we all have some inner desire of doing some negative things as you can experience that desire when you are drunk. At the time you are drunk it just you lose control over your senses alcohol don't say do something weird or unethical it's just our inner desire which made us do those things. Hence it's true we all desire some negative things but life is about finding peace

@honeybee upvoted 

kindly see my post to:https://steemit.com/poetry/@dontryme2/missing-you-poem-hope-you-like-it-guys

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Hey @honeybee , what do you think about my poems humanity

https://steemit.com/poetry/@imamaii/grief-rohingya-children-open-your-eyes-sovereign
https://steemit.com/life/@imamaii/her-breath-of-rohingya-saverohingya

We all have our standards of our dream partners. But whatever it is, if you love a person, just love him/her, don't own them nor change them.

The questions you posted at the beginning of the article remind me of Freud's death drive:

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Death_drive

I've always thought it was a strange concept, but deeply true, too. We don't really want the best for ourselves. If we did, we'd act like it!

That last part... and learn how to trust. That's the hardest part of being a grown human being. We are more fragile than children over the subject. It's impossible to trust someone fully without risking being hurt. And we avoid pain at all cost. Sometimes even if it means not being fully fulfilled with life or partners.

Great post as usual. I love your work. Check my latest if you can https://steemit.com/poetry/@tezmel/i-remember-her-part-one and share your thoughts please :)

such a beautiful piece with great lessons, THANKS for sharing. but for one to learn how to trust is really hard, especially when one has been betrayed alot of times and like you said 'i can just grow from this experience'...

Very beautiful and meaningful post.