So, I am a nineteen year old, and I still live with my parents. Living in the US, this is pretty rare, especially where I live. The main reason is because it's a military town that's a bit behind on technology (YouTube just became widely known here last year,) so almost all the eighteen year olds go into the military or college. ![colege party.jpg](https://gateway.ipfs.io/ipfs/QmdPh4eCo8ahfvvcxgZxbxoygLaW49f9M7Yp2utceawhdD) # Life is not a party Some people might expect that I am going to parties all the time. This is not the case. Since most people my age are gone, there are no parties to be found here. I could hang out with depressed thirty and forty year olds who think a party is sitting around watching TV, but I'd rather not. I do have one advantage though, and that is I play video games. I have a few friends who I know on Xbox very well. I also know friends of friends who have become friends with me too. We really enjoy each other, and that's where I get most of my social activity. I do have some good friends at work too, but they have not been around as long as my Xbox friends. So, even though most people my age are gone, I am still getting a lot of social activity. I don't really talk with my parents, and that's because that teenage rage that laser focuses at your parents is still very much there. I don't think it will go away until I move out. # Stepping on toes The reason why I live with my parents is because I quit one of my jobs to be at my gym job. The gym job needed me. The other reason, though, is that I needed to take care of my mom because she had a surgery on her foot. I also thought that they supported me trying to make money on the internet. This disappeared last month. Did I mention my mom practically begged me to stay at home until after her foot was healed? My goal is to at least make 1000 dollars a month off of Steem and crypto investing. I can say that I think it will happen. However, my mom says that doesn't matter, and that I need to be in the real world. I have explained countless times how my internet money making works, and it still leads to no avail. Remember that teenage rage that's still here? Yeah, this doesn't help it at all. # What does the future hold? I know that I haven't said this yet, but I am grateful that my parents are letting me live with them. However, I think that it will overall hurt my relationship with them more than help it. We are both growing less patient with each other, which will keep escalating while I'm here, and while my internet money making is growing, it's not growing as fast as I want it. So what am I to do now? I basically have two options. Keep working on videos and writing articles, but amp up production a lot and just work my ass off. I am talking minimum six hours a day of production and one livestream. Or, if I don't want to work as hard, threaten my parents with something like not being able to see any kids I have or just generally cutting of my relationship with them. I would rather not do the second one. What do you think of this story? Did you like it? Does it give you insight into what being nineteen with your parents is like? Feel free to ask any questions in the comments below!
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tell your mom these days the internet _is the real world_ 😂😂😂 best of luck w your earnings goal, don't stop hustling!
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I know right! Thank you so much!
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Sometimes, hustling your own way and ignoring your elders' calls for a more "traditional" life is the best way to get things done. Your parent wants you to stay at home AND get into "the real world"? Pure hypocrisy. These days, for someone your age, going into "the real world" means a higher-than-desirable chance of getting stuck in a dead-end job working around _someone else's_ schedule and life -- if you can even find a viable job in the first place. Furthermore, building something up from little or even no starting capital (as you seem to be trying to do) may bring a sense of meaning and accomplishment that no "real job" ever could. So keep on doing what you think will be best for you both financially and healthwise. The worst-case scenario may be that you don't bring in the money you were hoping for, but at least you're not going to be chest-deep in debt either -- a problem that too many traditional workers are facing.
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This is all very true. It's defiantly frustrating to see them try to push me into the real world without leaving home. If they want to provide real help, they should research how well some jobs pay, that might open their eyes. It is a lot of fun starting from zero and building up, and gives me way more sense of doing something than I have ever had.
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According to a lot of studies and the data millenials are staying at home with the fam in record numbers compared to other recent decades, but I think this can be kind of expected when you look at how insane housing prices and rent has gotten, and the soft job market considering outsourcing, automation, and old people simply not retiring. How the hell can anyone climb a corporate ladder when there are already a bunch of geezers at the top who won't retire until they're 300 years old? I think US culture is kind of unique in the sense that it encourages pushing the kids out of the house before they're financially prepared, European and Asian and even old-school US culture involved the kids staying at home until they were financially ready to buy their first home. I don't know, maybe showing them some data on how others are also staying at home might make them a bit less worried about you staying at home, you're still quite young and for you to even think about investing or trying to build up a capital base gives you a head start on your peers. There are a lot of ways to spend your time, and if you're spending it productively then you can probably find some way to show them that it could eventually pay off. Gl hf bro.
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I never knew that millennials are staying home more than other generations. I mean, I've heard anything from you should be working since age 12 to you shouldn't move out till you're married. US culture does push for kids to move out early, but I think it's more of an ego thing. Letting a kid stay till they can buy a house is a pretty sweet thing for a parent to do. Data would be useful for sure, or maybe just explain how culture is changing and stuff ain't cheap. IDK TBH
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Yeah, I just double triple checked just to make sure, and there was a big uptick in people your age or older (even into their 30's and 40's lol) moving back in with the parents and that trend held steady over the past decade. I think how they view how things should be depends on how up to date the person talking to you is on current economic and societal trends and what their circle of friends/how they gather info tells them as far as how normal the idea of multi-generational households is these days. Yeah, US culture is pretty independence-minded, but going it on your own before you're really financially established is a kind of false independence, and I liken it to the American car culture in a way, because much like how taking on extreme debt to buy a house or renting an apartment one can't afford gives one a sense of "independence", so too does driving a car give a sense of freedom that not being able to drive gives, but they both tie oneself down to something that's quite expensive to maintain and has a lot of external costs that aren't really thought about too heavily by most. I mean, it depends on their age and your parents probably aren't SO old that they think that a house could be bought on a minimum wage job (which it could be for, say, your grandparents' generation), but they probably grew up with houses being a reasonable multiple of average or median incomes, and gas under a buck a gallon, lol. Shit doesn't really compare to the insanity of asset and commodity prices these days. Maybe just search a couple of articles that back your argument and hand them some printed pages and it'll speak volumes if you let the data stand on its own.
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